tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17808356.post358814361905986503..comments2023-04-13T11:12:50.959-04:00Comments on We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars: BlurStargazerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06783419166213250943noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17808356.post-64120646579313016352007-04-04T15:43:00.000-04:002007-04-04T15:43:00.000-04:00I love the symbolism of the picture. And no I do ...I love the symbolism of the picture. And no I do not feel like you are being selfish or the least bit unreasonable. I do understand that hubby would just be a little concerned about the entire situation, but it's either let you find your center now or the entire relationship is doomed to fail in the future. Do you have a close out of town friend with spare bedroom or a comfy couch? Just a change of scenery even for a long weekend might do the trick. I also recommend getting alone in the woods and doing some meditation. I have a sacred rock that I use for that purpose at the top of a local mountain that overlooks Seven Falls (beautiful !). Best of luck Stargazer !Dave Scotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15486870407336917626noreply@blogger.com